Between the cracks
No matter what kind of help you have available for low-income, indigent, disabled or whomever, always – ALWAYS – someone falls through the cracks, slides between the bars, just plain doesn’t fit any category – and does without. I’ve a friend I met as a Chronic Pain treatment advocate who is now dying. He (self-administered thru the City) insurance’s medical manager believes anyone on long-term opiates is “junkie slime” and needs detox; nothing else. She’s had relapsing polychondritis for 12 years, and until the Med Mgr forced her to try a foundation pain med ‘just as good but cheaper,” directly opposite to her doctor’s letter saying ANY regimen change would cause “severe consequences up to and including death,” she lived a near-normal life. Her health was good. After the change she threw four clots, lost the use of her left arm, and is now mostly restricted to her bed. The City changed her (and ONLY hers) co-pay to 50%, which is $4,000 per month and totally out of her reach. If the pain isn’t controlled, the RP goes out of control. Her local hospital has told her not to come into ER unless she’s having a heart attack or a stroke. NONE of the doctors has read up on RP. The patient advocate told her, “Oh come on! Cheer up! You’ve got to get out of that bed and EXERCISE!” and then tried to do ROM with her there in agony. She also suggested detox. “Opiates can’t save a life! They’re not that kind of medicine!” So much for advocacy.
There are at least a few patients in any given area that fall through the cracks, like my friend. There’s no help ANYWHERE for her. Her kids are watching in horror as this always healthy, active and involved mother dies and they’re falling apart. Perhaps a discretionary fund with NO guidelines save that the patient has no other help. When it’s a life-or-death matter, you’d think there’s something, somewhere. There isn’t. Not for Mouse, anyway.
Ian
Comment By: Stacey Reeves
Date & Time: June 30, 2010 at 3:52 pm
Ian, what a powerful, touching story. I just have no idea what to say.
Comment By: Ian MacLeod
Date & Time: June 30, 2010 at 8:01 pm
I understand; I have no idea what to do. This woman is being murdered due to self-righteous medical ignorance, a family is just being destroyed, and no one with any authority cares enough to act. And the law says that those who've changed her co-pay to put her medication out of her reach is not accountable for her death. She was very healthy and active; now she's dying, demonstrably because of being forced to try a different medication, and now she's getting worse and worse – she WILL die because of this, and NO ONE is responsible. She can barely get out of bed now, her kids are a wreck, and oh well. Thank you, Manhattan, Kansas.
Comment By: Tina Franke
Date & Time: June 27, 2011 at 11:07 pm
I am sincerely sorry to hear of this person's experience. I have a 20-year old daughter who has been battling chronic pain for the last 10 years and it's been repulsive to hear the names she's been called over the course of her battle. She had a wonderful pediatric pain specialist at St. Louis Children's Hospital and he went far out of his way to make the effort to help her. Sadly, her situation is the result of delayed diagnoses (more than one!) and she was somehow made to be the villain in it all. I think there is much education needed about what constitutes addiction,dependence,and tolerance when it relates to the chronic pain world. This education should begin at the medical and nursing school levels, when the minds are impressionable. Not when they've become hardened and so sure of their knowledge base they are incapable of a new concept. Sadly, pain can kill you because it eats away at the part of you that makes living tolerable, much less enjoyable.
By the way, if I hear one more person say "Just suck it up! Just get up and do something with yourself, don't just lay there complaining about the pain you're supposedly in." I think I may very well have an aneurysm of my own.